1976 Earthquake in Guatemala (MK perspective)

May 17th, 2010

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This was my experience of the 1976 earthquake in Guatemala:

I was sound asleep. Bang, bang, bang… The doors of the closet made a huge racket. And somebody was shaking my bed. I was only six at the time, and I yelled to my sister, “Stop it!!” Then I realized that she couldn’t possibly be shaking the closet doors and my bed at the same time – they were too far away from each other. I sat up.

My 2-year-old sister was yelling in the next room, “My bed is running!” Her crib had wheels, and the crib was actually moving across the floor. My dad ran into the nursery to get her, commanding my older sister and I to come downstairs immediately. We obeyed. I don’t remember being scared. I do remember being excited because it felt like we were on a ride at an amusement park. I had no idea thousands of people in that city were dying at that moment, crushed beneath their own houses.

When we got downstairs, I heard dishes crashing. The electricity was off. We lit candles. My dad and mom were talking. They told us to sit down in the living room. Our house was made out of bricks, and they felt that we would be safer staying in the house than going outside. Power lines were down, and we could get electrocuted.

We prayed. We waited.

It was the middle of the night, and we were not allowed to go to bed.

What goes through the mind of a child as she tries to make sense out of a strange situation? I was thinking that our house was built like the third little pig’s house. It was good to build houses out of bricks, because they were safe.

Eventually we must have gone to bed. The next day, as we were driving around Guatemala City, I was stunned to see houses leveled and rubble everywhere. Some houses were half standing, and to my six-year-old mind, they looked like life-sized doll houses. Someone needed to clean up. Everything was a mess.

For weeks after the earthquake (a 7.6 on the Richter scale), there would be aftershocks. Each time there was another aftershock, I would run down the stairs to look at the circular picture on the wall. It was swinging back and forth. I waited until it stopped swinging before going back upstairs. It became normal and routine.

Years later when I moved to California to go to university, I couldn’t understand why people were scared with small tremors that you could hardly feel. If rebuilt adobe houses didn’t fall down during aftershocks, the odds that a reinforced American building would fall during a small rumble were quite slim.

The 1976 earthquake in Guatemala was just one of the many stories I have about growing up as a missionary kid. To keep up with my MK posts, like my MK page on Facebook.

My Gardening Binder

May 14th, 2010

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I created a gardening binder with pictures, articles, and blueprints from my backyard. I’ve used this as a source of inspiration for years now.

When I moved into our first house 12 years ago, I saw an overgrown backyard with a lot of potential. I had never really been good at gardening (aside from my boarding school experience). So the entire backyard (and front yard!) loomed like a daunting task, waiting to be magnificent.

My first step was to sign up for an inexpensive gardening class, put on by the local community college. I took copious notes and asked lots of questions. The good thing about taking a local class was that the expert could tell me what grew well in my area.

gardening-binder-2I read some gardening magazines, ripping out any articles that were helpful “how to’s,” such as how to prune a bush correctly or when and how to plant bulbs. I punched three holes into the pages and put them into a binder. I made dividers: perennials, bulbs, herbs, lawn, trees and shrubs, exercises for gardeners, and general advice. I hole punched all my class notes and handouts from my gardening class and categorized them accordingly.

I also cut out pictures of inspiring gardens so that I had an idea of what I liked, and so that I would be excited to do all the work that needed to be done. I grabbed a black sheet of construction paper and glued some beautiful gardening pictures on the front. I slid this into the pocket on the outside cover of the binder. I wrote “Gardening” on a sheet of black paper and slid it down the binding pocket so that when the binder was on a shelf, I could spot it quickly.

In the back pgardening-binder-3ocket I put “before” and “after” pictures. I went outside and took pictures for the “before” side. I left the “after” side empty for years. Behind the “before” and “after” pictures, in that same back pocket, I put my garden blueprints. I bought a sheet of blueprint paper at the art supply store while taking a landscaping class (another local class). I had to measure my entire yard with a measuring tape, and then measure out where each tree and bush was. I found out that day that I had 23 pine trees in my small backyard in the suburbs. No wonder my soil was acidic!

Over the years I have improved my yard, but I’ve had more failure than success. Being on a tight budget, at first I refused to buy dirt. But my soil was so bad, I really needed to amend it or it would never look good. The thought of buying dirt seemed ludicrous to me, but that was one secret that helped my garden to begin to do well. When I had no money whatsoever for plants, I threw a garden party, where peopgardening-binder-4le brought plants from their yard to share, and swapped their plants for other people’s plants. That was how I began my perennial garden. If you go to people’s houses with fabulous yards, you can compliment them and start letting people know that your garden is pathetic. Sooner or later people will start giving you plants, especially women from church who have seen your real garden and feel sorry for you. Then again, I also told my husband to never buy me flowers unless they had a root attached. In these sneaky ways, I built my garden over time, with virtually no money.

Cake Contest

May 13th, 2010

Just in case you are throwing a birthday party any time soon, here are some cake ideas from a Cub Scout cake contest we had a few years back. My oldest son Bryan won first place in the non-scouting category for his flying saucer cake. (He baked part of the cake in a glass pyrex bowl to get the rounded effect.)

My son Stephen made a cake that had a lake (blue fruit roll-ups) and a pier (pretzel sticks). My son Nathaniel won second place in the non-scouting category for his fire truck cake. (We found the instructions for that cake in a Family Fun magazine.) I also threw in Stephen’s bathtub cake from last year (also a Family Fun idea). He won second prize last year. (The water in the bathtub is blue Knox blocks covering some goldfish crackers at the bottom! The faucet handles are marshmallows.) Take a look and tell me which is your favorite!

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Why I Never Wanted a Blog

May 12th, 2010

why-a-blogWhy a blog? I listened to workshops on how to start a website, and without exception, they all said that a blog was necessary to allow people to get to know you. Providing fresh content daily enabled you to rank higher on search engines so more people can find your website. After all, you might as well not bother having a website if nobody is ever going to see it, they said.

So I looked at other people’s blogs, and I was annoyed by mostly rambling. Why would anyone want to listen to rambling? They talked about what they cooked for dinner. Or they told you they did some laundry that day. Does anybody really care about that?

Are you giving me fresh ideas on how to be a better wife and mother? Am I being convicted of sin? Am I actually getting to know you by knowing what you eat for dinner? It’s like the chit chat at a party that doesn’t go anywhere and has no eternal value. A deep conversation that talks about a struggle is worthwhile because it gets your mind to think, and later a Scripture might pop into your mind about it. Or at the very least, you can pray for that person. That’s worth something. When people are vulnerable and let their guards down, other people can get to know that person, and there is a human bond of companionship that results.

But if I pressure myself to write blog entries that are always deep, I will be emotionally exhausted, and that will drain me, and I won’t have energy for my own family. Also, what if I feel foggy one day and have nothing to write? I don’t want to be forced to write. True inspiration doesn’t work that way anyway. It comes in bursts.

So what to do? I came up with the idea of stockpiling blog entries. Then if I felt dry one day, I could use a fresh blog entry from a day that I wrote three because I was so inspired. I could also do sets of blogs. I could do 10 blogs on growing up as a missionary kid so people could know who I am and why I love hands-on learning so much. This would help them remember their childhood, and it would make them want to go climb trees and catch butterflies with their kids. Bombs went off, earthquakes happened, and people walked around with machine guns. That was my life. Would anyone be interested in that?

Then I could do 10 blog entries about when I lived in England. I traveled to poets’ houses, ran around castles, rode on a hot air balloon, and directed middle school plays. Would this be of use to anyone? Maybe, maybe not. (Possibly it would give people a greater love for literature and the medieval time period.) At least it would probably be fun to read. People could get to know me.

I could do 10 blog entries about traveling the world, starting with my cheap nightmare through Europe tour. Greece and the Greek Islands were fun, and so were Egypt and Turkey. Maybe homeschooling mothers would be encouraged to study geography more. I traveled to all these places before getting married, while I was still in England and it was way cheaper. I rationed my food to save every penny of my teacher’s salary so I could do this, knowing I wouldn’t have the money after I got married.

I started stockpiling blog posts before beginning this blog, and I realized that I have always loved writing! So this blog will be an outlet for writing about homeschooling and my walk with God.