Goals for my Children

August 16th, 2010

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The importance of goals in homeschooling cannot be overestimated. If you have no goals, you don’t know where you are going. It’s important to have long-term as well as short-term goals. What do you want your children to accomplish before they leave home at age 18? A goals list for each subject area will help you do long-range planning, and it can help you eliminate busywork in your homeschool that does not contribute to your goals. Short-range goals might include what you want your child to accomplish in any given year. I have included a list of the long-range goals that I have for my own children. I hope it is helpful as you formulate your own goals.

Bible

  1. Understand the Gospel and be saved.
  2. Learn obedience and self-control.
  3. Grow in their knowledge and love of Christ.
  4. Have a vivid knowledge of Bible stories.
  5. Be able to take notes and learn during a sermon.
  6. Learn the great hymns of the faith.
  7. Learn how to use Bible concordance, atlas, dictionary, handbook.
  8. Understand and experience Jewish traditions and holidays.
  9. Memorize Scripture and the books of the Bible.

Math

  1. Be able to do quick mental math (add, subtract, multiply, and divide).
  2. Have good estimation skills and practical math.
  3. Have financial savvy; budgeting and business skills.
  4. Be able to do math up through calculus, if needed for future job.

Language

  1. Be able to read fluently with understanding.
  2. Write effectively and vividly in all forms of writing.
  3. Give a speech presentation effectively.
  4. Be exposed to drama and theater.
  5. Have sharp listening skills and reasoning skills.
  6. Understand basic logic and have critical thinking skills.
  7. Read and discuss a wide range of classical literature.

Science

  1. Have thorough knowledge and appreciation of God’s creation.
  2. Understand scientific principles including chemistry and physics.
  3. Have earth science and biology knowledge.
  4. Exposure to evolution vs. creation science. Able to logically defend the faith.

History/Geography

  1. Know the states and capitals, and locate states.
  2. Know the location of all countries on earth.
  3. Be exposed to travel in other states and countries.
  4. Understand the flow of history and when major events took place; vividly picture all major time periods.
  5. Understand the “why” behind major events. See God’s hand in His dealings with mankind.

Foreign Language

  1. Exposure to Hebrew and Greek.
  2. Intermediate to advanced knowledge of Spanish.

Art

  1. Have basic drawing skills, painting, and crafting skills.
  2. Have knowledge of great works of art and artists from history.
  3. Exposure to art museums.

Music

  1. Knowledge of great classical composers and music.
  2. Carry a beat (clapping).
  3. Exposure to symphony, jazz festivals, etc.
  4. Sing on key and possibly harmonize.
  5. Learn how to read basic music notes (piano).
  6. Take instrument lessons if interested.

PE/Health

  1. Learn about healthy nutrition and exercise.
  2. Learn how to swim, or at least tread water.
  3. Exposure to sports and other physical activities.
  4. Learn about the digestive system, skeletal system, muscular system, respiratory system, etc.

Cutting My Family’s Hair

August 14th, 2010

I’ve cut my children’s hair for years, not because I wanted to or because I was any good at it. No, I did it to save money. I bought a hair cutting kit back before I had kids, when I was working to put my husband through university. We were low on money, and whenever I cut my husband’s hair, he looked like a peanut.

As soon as my husband was out of school and got a real job, he didn’t want me to cut his hair any more. After all, he had to make an impression. He didn’t want to look goofy. Whenever I gave him a coupon for a hair cut, he would tell me, “If I’m going to get a bad haircut, you might as well do it.” Oddly, I wasn’t hurt. He was right. A cheaper place always cut his hair just as bad as I did, so why waste the money? His point was that he didn’t want to look goofy, so I haven’t criticized him for letting him get it cut at the mall. Once you find one person in particular who does it right, you end up going back to that person. That’s what my husband did.

Now as far as the children were concerned, I would always cut their hair, because who cares what they looked like? I homeschool, so it’s not like kids are going to make fun of them. However, I recommend having the children watch a video while you cut their hair, because otherwise if they start crying, they get hair in their eyes and mouth, and they start spitting. Suddenly there’s snot, and you just want the nightmare to be over with.

Of course, I’ve saved over a thousand dollars over the years, so I just hold on to that idea as I chop away with the scissors. For some reason the kids’ haircuts looked good most of the time. Or maybe after cutting hair hundreds of times, I was finally finding my groove.

Old Deck/New Deck

August 13th, 2010

rotten-deckI am so amazed by God. Earlier this year my husband and I looked out onto our rotten deck and realized that it had to go. Ten years ago when we moved into our house, the inspector told us that we needed to replace the deck. For ten years we haven’t had the money. My husband kept wanting to smash it to pieces, but I knew that it would be a worse eyesore to have nothing. I was using that deck. I’m ashamed to say that I told him, “Just wait ’til someone falls through. Then we’ll replace it.” I was stalling for time. I didn’t want to go into debt for something that was optional.

old-deckWhen this spring came, I saw how awful it was. I had planned to teach a poetry class and film it outside, but alas! The deck looked so putrid that I had to cancel the class before I even announced it. It was dangerous. My husband started chopping the deck to pieces, and we burned it all in our fireplace little by little during the spring. It was nice to have firewood. The wood burned so quickly, I had to keep throwing on more wood just to keep the fire burning.

I had no idea how we were going to pay for the deck, but I thought that at least the hideous thing would be gone. At the worst, there would be a sheer drop off, and no one would be able to go out into the back yard to play.

new-deckA check suddenly arrived in the mail from a relative who had no idea we were replacing our deck. She just decided to give us what she called “early inheritance money.” I had prayed that God would somehow send us the money we needed for the deck, and God certainly answered that prayer. I felt all choked up and ready to cry from gratitude.

My husband designed the deck with benches and planters, in a style that I had never seen before. We hired a Christian handyman to go ahead and begin the work. The entire deck was built while my husband was on a missions trip to the Czech Republic. On the day my husband came back, before going to the airport to pick him up, I planted flowers that were on sale, since it was so late in the summer. It looked beautiful.

I sometimes go out there with a cup of coffee to read my Bible and pray in the morning. God gave me that deck. My husband worked hard to remove tnew-deck-2he old deck, and he was creative to design a deck that I absolutely love. My husband never ceases to amaze me, when I see more good qualities that I haven’t seen before. He would have built the deck himself, but for the lack of time and energy. Even though my husband is a computer programmer, he has done nearly all the renovations in our house himself. I just wish our house would stop falling apart so that my husband could get some rest!

Playing with Cheetos

August 12th, 2010

During a recent “Cops and Robbers” birthday party, my children started playing with their Cheetos. Hilarity ensued. Cheetos became eyebrows, smiley faces, a monocle eye glass, a moustache, the poisonous teeth of a snake, and endless other varieties of objects. Take a look at how much fun we had:

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